Fake appearnece

I just came across a very interesting article. I am not going to discuss the subject matter of the article as it is out of context for me, but it has a message which is of great value. It is said that there was a very pious man, living in a village in a small cottage. He used to spent most of his time in prayers. One of his friend got a summon and had to leave for the city but he didn't trusted anyone to leave his wife with. After considering the matter, he decided to leave her at that pious persons place. The wife was sent to his house to stay with other ladies. One night the pious man got thirsty and asked for water from home, but his wife was busy so the friends wife gave him water. When he saw her hands he could not control himself and his mind started bad imaginations about his friends wife. He stayed in this condition for a while and then realised his sin. He got very worried and went to another pious person for help. The other man told him about a person in another village who could help him to get out of that state. So he went to that person. When the pious person saw that man, he appeared to be drinking wine while sitting with his young son. The pious person told him the whole sin story and that person told him the remedy. While leaving that place the pious person asked him that why are you giving the appearance of drinking Wine while you are drinking only soft drink. That person replied because I don't want others to leave their wives with me and thus put me in the trouble by falling for a stranger and deceive a trust. What I got from the above story is that we tend to pretend and thus deceive others. We lie and try to hide our sins. Humans are greedy by nature and want to get things from other person's plate while might got better on own plate. I am trying to be a bit diplomatic, leaving it to reader to take meaning out of the words. But the message is very obvious one has to present as he/she is, in reality. The difference in words and acts is a good diplomacy for short time only and people do get caught :P, if not then Almighty is watching and is upto Him. So instead of putting one self in a controversery by not speaking or hiding the truth, it's always a better strategy to come up with a true appearance , and thus avoid the later consequences. One has to be very careful in matters that creates impressions and counters other humans. People speak lies out of fear of fellow beings. But they dont realise the simple fact that we are after all curious humans and not angels. A single lie can lead to a total collapse of life. If people can get judgemental of our right things so can they of the wrong ones, like a true false and false true detection test. So say what you really are and do as you say.

Trust and Belief

Human thought is very complex. It keeps on changing with the changing circumstances, always looking to the different aspects of things in life. The complexity of life increases with the increasing expectations. One of the most affecting factor of these expectations is our fair and worries. We are greatly influenced by our worries. We spend hours and hours of thinking on very simple things. All this thinking does no good to us but inturn makes our lives miserable. Our confidence greatly shatters with all these worries and thinking about worries. So unless and until we get rid of our worries, there is never going to be any entrence for self belief and thus we will remain stuk. It is therefore very important that we have this belief that I am still able to coupe with things and Allah is there to help me throught all the thick and thin. A true believer is a person who puts his full confidence in Allah and trusts his commitment. Only those people enjoy success of both the worlds and in every matter of life, who stand and confront all the worries and fears of life with this trust and belief that yes so what, I am still living and Allah will always be on my side and things will get better and best for me.

Life as it is

Some times in our lives we are so hasty that we don't even bother about the outcomes of our acts. To every one of us we are perfect beings, though we might not accept it in public but let's be honest we do consider ourselves supreme beings. Having said that I know it's not going to be widely appreciated but to us any one who is lower in qualification , age, experience and these days wealth are to be considered lower beings. I remember Ashfaq Ahmad once while narrating one of his life stories said that after doing my masters, I wouldnt give much importance to my father views. Simply because I am more qualified than him. But there is another subject called life. We all are studing this equally well but only some of us are good students. Few days back I heard some one wishing to restart life from the beginning and shape it differently but bring it to the same point. It's very interesting cause non of us seem to be a good student of life. We come across people who had left no stone unturned to harm their soul and people who had done everything just to keep away from a tiny spot. Humans are curious by nature, they want to know why is it that even living a perfect or close to perfection life, they still have to suffer. According to the rule of the book, if one does good, the reward for it should also be good. But it is far from reality. If we do the anatomy of a successful student of life, we get so much frustration that we might endup considering our own much better. That's the actual thing, why do we have to compair our lives with others. If we stick to this question for a while and look back few chapters, we would get to the conclusion that we had a good past life. At that stage we realise the importance of the present. We start thinking that it's actually the present that needs to be shaped well. But we hardly learn any thing good from our past, except some worldly experiences that might save us from loss in wealth or health. So the most important part of our lives is the present. Life is uncertain as well. We need to be very careful in taking any steps for the future. Of course life will go on even if we fail to do so, but then again we would want to get back to where we started. My main objective of writing this post is to make one feel the importance of the present in our life. We can not move back to the past and neither can we jump directly to the future. So it's no use living in any of these two i.e repents and dreaming. Live life with a balance attitude, keeping future in our goals and past is our minds. Preempt through observation and logical analysis without the addition of comparison is the only possible way towards a prosperous next day.

The mp3 head phone generation(M=mutated, P=person, 3=gene locus)

Hmm, so here I am again. I must confess I had completely forgotten about my own blog(^_^), the reason is quite obvious, I was unable to digest some of the controversies of my own life. Living a life of self exile is not hard but one has to be very self made and not look towards others for any good expectations. Time is a healer we all know, but how and when it actually acts is out of our control. It might teach you so many things and it also has this impact to erase all of your rational. People are not born idiots but it's the environment that effects. Recently I also found some new aspects of life like , Stars :P. Being a Muslim scientist it's a spicy dish hard to eat but one has to go through few things in life for the sack of it. The purpose of my space is and always going to be the same and thats what I have mentioned at the intro. So just to keep all happy you have to go through all the rubbish. It's good for a curious person like me plus it has this added advantage of teaching and thus providing this opportunity to express later. So my advance version is a Libra who likes to be seen far apart from the rest of the world, one who is very balanced :P. I don't understand how people get all these words that are self pleasing. If you follow the new generation carefully, what and how they think you will be surprised that these people are a new version or an updated version of Humans. If I want to say the previous statement in scientific terminology it will mean a Mutated homosapien :P. These mutations are a mix of various cultures and religions, making statements and asking for proofs. Believing in them is like believing an xBox. These people have their own thoughts which are not confused but confusing others. They don't want to waste time therefore it will be much more resonable for them to hear to latest junk while avoiding what their mum or dad has to say in a slow and careful way. As they have got the best brains that developed while playing video games and listening to intracontenental music. Their ideals at their early age are some junkies who does all the past time considered bad deeds, like kissing and hugging in parks or bus stops to let the world know:P. When these under developed creatures get to guvinile or later teenage stage, they had experienced all most every thing. I think that's the reson they are then declared adults at the age of 17. But are they really grown up mentally. One of the disadvantage of mix communities is that each of them try to avoid the other. But the new creatures study and age at a common place. Quick as they are,don't waste a single second in getting their wishes full filled. They don't like to lie about others or other lieing to them and they don't like to talk about themselves :P. But these under construction creatures do get mature at an age when they are left with nothing but to repent about. So my point is why are they left so lost, they can be handled, matured at a much earlier stage. Why their parents are so busy in making money that is not going to be of any use later on. These self exiled parents need to focus on the tree and not on the leaves. If the tree is weak it's definitely going to be a mutated one. If I'm told by a Star reader that your third generation is going to be a mix whose religion is not the the one you are following, I will simply pick my luggage and walk back to my roots. I need my tree strong !